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Frequently Asked Questions
If someone dies at home, contact their GP (during surgery hours) or call 111 if it's out of hours. If the death was expected, a healthcare professional will advise you on the next steps. If the death was unexpected, call 999 immediately.
In England and Wales, a death should usually be registered within five days. The hospital, GP, or medical examiner will explain when you can make an appointment with the local Register Office.
You can contact a funeral director as soon as someone has died, even before the death has been registered. They can guide you through the process and explain what happens next.
Most funerals take place within one to three weeks after the death, although this can vary depending on family wishes, religious requirements, and local availability.
No. While many families choose to use a funeral director, you can arrange a funeral yourself if you wish.
Yes. Unless there are legal or religious reasons that apply, the choice is yours or the wishes of the person who died.
Funeral costs vary depending on the type of service, burial or cremation fees, transport, flowers, and other personal choices. It's always worth asking for a written estimate before making decisions.
Tell Us Once is a free government service that lets you report a death to most government departments in one go, saving you from contacting each one separately.
Yes. Grief affects everyone differently. You may experience sadness, anger, numbness, guilt, relief, confusion, or all of these emotions at different times. There is no right or wrong way to grieve.
If you're struggling to cope with everyday life or your grief feels overwhelming, speak to your GP or contact a bereavement support organisation. Asking for help is a sign of strength.
Yes. Many children benefit from attending a funeral if they have been prepared for what to expect and are given the choice to attend.
There is no strict rule. While many people wear dark clothing, some families ask guests to wear bright colours or clothing that reflects the personality of the person who has died.
Absolutely. Many families choose favourite music, readings, photographs, flowers, memory tables, or themed tributes to celebrate the person's life.
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