Funeral Packages vs Bespoke Funerals

When arranging a funeral, you may be offered a funeral package or the option to create a bespoke funeral. Both can provide a meaningful farewell, but it's important to understand the differences before making your decision.

What Is a Funeral Package?

A funeral package is a pre-designed service that includes a set range of products and services for a fixed price. Packages often include:

• Collection and care of the person who has died
• A standard coffin
• A hearse
• Funeral staff
• A funeral service
• Completion of the necessary paperwork

Some packages may also include items such as an order of service or limousine, while others may charge extra.

Advantages of a Funeral Package

• Clear pricing.
• Easier to compare costs.
• Can be good value.
• Quicker to arrange.
• Suitable if you prefer a straightforward funeral.

Things to Consider

• You may pay for services you don't need.
• The package may not include everything you want.
• Making changes can sometimes increase the cost.
• There may be fewer choices for coffins, vehicles or service options.

What Is a Bespoke Funeral?

A bespoke funeral is individually planned around the wishes of the person who has died and their family. 

You choose exactly what you would like, such as:

• Type of coffin.
• Burial or cremation.
• Choice of vehicles.
• Flowers.
• Music.
• Readings.
• Venue.
• Celebrant or minister.
• Personal touches that reflect the person's life.

Advantages of a Bespoke Funeral

• Completely personalised.
• You only choose the services you want.
• Greater flexibility.
• Can reflect the personality, hobbies and wishes of your loved one.

Things to Consider

• Costs can vary depending on your choices.
• It may take a little longer to plan.
• With more options, there may be more decisions to make.

Which Is Right for You?

Neither option is better than the other.Some families appreciate the simplicity and reassurance of a package, while others prefer the flexibility of creating a unique and personal farewell.

Take time to ask questions and make sure you understand exactly what is included, what isn't, and whether there are any additional costs.

Questions to Ask

Before making a decision, consider asking:

• What exactly is included in the price?
• Are there any additional fees?
• Can the package be changed?
• Can I remove items I don't need?
• Are there limits on the choice of coffin or vehicles?
• Can I personalise the service?

A Final Thought

A meaningful funeral doesn't depend on how much you spend. Whether you choose a package or a bespoke funeral, what matters most is that it reflects the wishes of the person who has died and provides comfort to those saying goodbye.

Top Tip: If you're considering a funeral package and ask for an itemised estimate, be aware that this may not always be possible. Package funerals are usually priced as a single inclusive service rather than a collection of individual items. Instead, ask the funeral director to explain exactly what is included and whether there are any optional extras or charges that aren't covered by the package.